I realized, how much we could be dependent on external factors or things, which in general don’t have any kind of relationship with our intention and actions.
“I can’t do sport now, because I’m waiting to lose weight and get the level that I got before”.
When someone answers something like that, I just think. That is impressive, doing nothing and just losing weight should be enough to be in a top-notch condition. Then I ask the same person after a couple of months.
“Now that you lost weight, why you don’t start to do sport, as you mentioned last time”. As an answer, I just received, “I just waiting for the release of the gym, you know because of corona”.
It’s very easy to realize, how the resolution and goals are part only of our imagination and thoughts. We are not able to bring this imagination to reality, even being this the best and more desired intentions and action from us, and we’re dreaming about it.
Sometimes it not necessary to share our next steps. With that, we only share expectations, which in the end are the most difficult enemy. Since they are not part of reality and with our thoughts, we make them bigger and stressful for our life.
Sometimes we need a confirmation from outside about our performance and improvement, that is the truth. However, from whom comes this confirmation, which is coming from outside. Why I need someone to tell me that I’m good or bad doing something? Do I not know myself enough? Do the other people know me better than myself?
I believe, if I want something, I just go for it. If I’m hungry, I just get some food. If I have stress, I just try to chill and relax. Can someone else tell me? “you are feeling stress now” or “Hey, you’re Hungry now, go and get some food.” “Hey, you have stress, now you need to work harder and try to avoid a negative experience with your boss”.
How can somebody know that?
I believe, those are very internal, private, and intimate feelings, which nobody different than myself can perceive. For that reason, this is in my opinion no possible. Nobody can feel for somebody else; nobody can live for somebody else. If somebody tells me, I can feel for you and I can live for you, this is only in the imagination of this person. In the reality you know exactly what you are feeling, and how you are living your life.
Please don’t allow imagination and negative thoughts, which are comming from you, or from other people to influence your reality, your life your dreams, and your soul. Why? That is simple, nobody can love and know your reality, life, dreams, and soul better than YOU.