Some experiences from the past caused us recorded pain.
Why recorded?
Those past pains make our intuitions works in the time we are interacting with others or making decisions. So, based on the previous experience our mind tries to help us, taking all the bad experiences and suffering that we had experienced before. This, to avoid them and feel secure.
If there are multitasking people, which can be present and at the same time make some security assurance in their minds. I’m not one of them anymore.
I do prefer to take the risk and have real interactions and connections with others. Not trusting totally in the other person in front of me, this is not relevant. What is relevant is my capabilities and being able to react or just go and say no. Based on that I consider which risk I take or not.
I know this is tricky, but in the end, you always need to trust in yourself more than the others.
Pay more attention to what is happening in your body.
Be more focused to perceive sharply what is really happening right now.
This, while you are dealing with situations that activate the intuition and this deeply secure operation of the mind. Only you know which are those, if there are those.
Take the risk and be patient, having time with others to build new stories in life.
Remember that stories are the only remaining things that keep you present in this world after we leave it.
The stories with others are what will be shared, as well as you shared the moment with the people, with whom you were connected, and could create and write this history in your mind.
So, others help us to grow,
So, it is important to trust,
Let’s be curious and flow,
Let’s just be real and trust.
Trust in me deeply again,
And realized that I can be prepared,
In case this situation comes again,
My confidence will make me aware,
That is not the same situation again,
So, just be present and not be somewhere,
Where you don’t trust and suffer again.
It is not about forgetting every negative experience that I had in the past, delete all the past pain. No, it is not about that. Just about to keep the stories that I can share with love because I experienced these with love as well.
In case it was a negative experience, I also experienced this with love, because of the love and the trust in myself. That let me be here right now, living my present and trusting in my future.
What did not kill you, makes you stronger.
What did not kill you, was the trust in yourself and the love for your life. Exactly these two things, which are coming exclusively from your being, make you stronger and let you grow.